Friday, November 14, 2025

Existential Psychotherapy by Irvin D. Yalom (1980)


What does it mean to live knowing that life is finite — that every choice we make occurs under the shadow of death, freedom, isolation, and meaninglessness?

This haunting question sits at the core of Irvin D. Yalom’s Existential Psychotherapy (1980), a book that boldly examines humanity’s deepest fears and turns them into chances for growth and understanding.

In Existential Psychotherapy, Yalom aims to provide a clear framework for addressing the universal concerns that define human existence. 

He identifies four “ultimate concerns”—death, freedom, isolation, and meaninglessness—as the core sources of psychological distress. Instead of viewing these anxieties as signs of pathology, Yalom encourages us to see them as the raw materials for self-awareness and growth. His goal isn't to eliminate anxiety but to teach both therapist and client how to face it bravely. In doing so, he links philosophy and psychotherapy, combining reflection and healing into one compassionate practice.

Thursday, November 13, 2025

Terminal Illness and Loved Ones


Yes, it is true — hearing that someone you love has a terminal illness can be both heartbreaking and frightening. It may feel as if the ground has shifted beneath you, leaving you unsure of what to say, what to do, or how to simply be in such a moment.

This kind of news touches every corner of the human heart. It challenges not only our emotions but also our beliefs, our sense of meaning, and sometimes even our faith. You might find yourself asking: 

Wednesday, November 12, 2025

"The concealed structure of reality is reasonable.”

“The concealed structure of reality is reasonable.” -  Czesław Miłosz 

Czesław Miłosz’s claim that “the concealed structure of reality is reasonable” reflects a deep metaphysical optimism—an act of faith in the intelligibility of existence. It implies that beneath the surface chaos, suffering, and what seems like the absurdity of the world, there is a fundamental order accessible through reason, reflection, or perhaps revelation.

Monday, November 10, 2025

Counseling Ethics: Philosophical and Professional Foundations

Can a counselor act ethically without first reflecting philosophically? 
This question forms the living pulse of Counseling Ethics: Philosophical and Professional Foundations by Christin Jungers. At a time when professional ethics is often reduced to compliance checklists, Jungers reawakens our attention to the moral imagination and philosophical depth that true counseling demands.

Jungers’ book moves beyond rules and codes to explore why we act ethically, not merely how. She invites readers to approach counseling as a moral and philosophical vocation, rooted in reflection, autonomy, and virtue

Through experiential activities, case studies, and diverse theoretical lenses—from existential phenomenology to care ethics—she cultivates ethical awareness as a lived, dialogical process rather than a set of rigid prescriptions.

Music and Wellbeing: The Synchronization of Mind, Body, and Meaning

A Memory from 2001: When Music Expanded My World It was a beautiful spring day in 2001.  After delivering my paper, I was in a bookstore on ...